Fedi Nuril & Bella dalam kisah cinta bertema islami, memaparkan betapa cinta dan kasih
yang agung itu paling tepat hanyalah pada sang pencipta dan cinta antara manusia seringkali di landa
dugaan, badai kesetiaan dan pembuktian cinta hanya untuk memenuhi nafsu semata.
Manusia yang selalu di dalam kerugian apabila membiarkan nafsu menguasai kehidupannya.
Hanya segelintir yang mencari keredhaan Allah swt, walau hati di landa permasalahan yang
amat berat namun tetap tenang mengharungi segala sesuatu dan pada akhirnya menerima ketidak
kesempurnaan itu dengan mudah, hati yang tenang di suluh Allah yang maha pembuka jalan dan
menerangi jalan2 buntu.

Kisah yang amat menyentuh hati....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UyUccfnTiHA

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4:24 PM

Perfect scene of a family, the loving parent and the obedient children with good financial background. Big house, luxury cars and a must - every year holidays. That only happen in almost all the dramas that we love to watch. In reality, what makes a good parent and a good family institution? The bond between parent and children is the essence of love and affection. Most couple got married happily and have children with a few who are not even worthy to be called parents. Prospectives parents must recognise their responsibilities and realise what parenthood involves.

First thing first, the essential of good parenthood is the acceptance of the role. Couples who become parent can no longer call their time their own. Taking charge of the household routine, prioritising family needs and making sacrifices. All that could be discussed and communicated between a parent. The world of affection which should surround a child should precede its birth. It is here that good parenthood begins.

Parenthood is a full-time task and the only way of cultivating the right habits in children is through example and by providing an atmosphere which is conducive to the growth of these qualities. A child learns these virtues at home and the influence of his parents can counteract all other influences whether good or bad.

This is the theoretical aspect; in practice, the recipe for good parenthood is love and understanding. These two envelop a whole world in themselves. Love means love in the right degree, love which does not ignore discipline, love which does not yield for the wrong reasons and for the wrong ends, love which can provide security and confidence for the growing child, love which leads to sacrifices and makes one devote some time and join in enjoying the simple pleasures of childhood. Understanding means trying to find what the child wants and why, giving him the freedom to try new ideas, to experiment with hobbies and learn from the world of nature. Understanding in love becomes hiding one's fears and allowing the child to develop a sense of adventure and fearlessness; it means loving without clinging. It is not only confined to this, it extends further. It includes patience and forbearance. There may be occasions when a child may be afraid of things: of participation in social and public functions, of swimming of heights and endless other things. Understanding means trying to find out the reasons for the fear and perhaps giving in for the time being and helping the child to overcome it gradually.

Whatever is of value in the human character is born out of love and understanding. There can be no strict rules that one should say "No"' or put one's foot down or allow a child complete freedom. Each situation has to be judged and examined individually and each parent has to make the decision himself or herself. But there can be one rule: don't corrupt the child. Don't teach it to accept the second best, don't bribe it into obedience, don't be tyrannized by its tantrums, don't blackmail it or allow it to blackmail you. If the child remains incorruptible, it has every chance of growing up to be a person of generosity and compassion.

Being a good parent is in itself a process of growing up. One should have the capacity to love and to love wisely: it is this kind of person who makes a good parent. Share yourself with your children and they will love you and learn from you.

Family Something to Talk About...

10:19 AM

What makes a happy and successful marriage?

Nowadays, it is not easy to find a successful marriage. It needs effort from both sides to make a marriage happy and successful one. Basic recipe of a happy marriage will definitely be love, respect, faith, sacrifices and good communication between the two people sharing a life as husband and wife.

Lets talk about respect in a marriage. Respect has been known as the key to a successful marriage. Respect each other. Treat our spouse the way we want to be treated. It is never about one person, it is about two. A great way to show respect is to be honest and faithful.

Faith has always been an important part of most of our life, from childhood to being an adult. It has given us a strong sense of who we are. Naturally we wanted someone who felt the same sense of self, as we did, in religion.  Having the same religious and spiritual beliefs are part of criteria many people use when seeking a marriage partner. They feel strongly that the person they are going to marry should have the same traditions and customs, and intensity of belief as they themselves do. For them, it is an integral part of marriage.

Be ever ready to trust & sacrifice for the good of the marriage. Most importantly be ready to sacrifice your time, your pleasures and be willing to accept things and habits that will never change in your partner. Be a believer that love change and develop to all good things. So work your marriage towards that and it will grow healthily and happily. Give trust at 100% to your partner and be honest all the time and trust everything will be fine.

A good communication makes a successful marriage. Start easily with being a good listener. Listen with your heart and when it is time to talk things, talk lovingly and sensibly. Never ever bring up the past mistakes and always be ready to admit or to forgive. Communication is a space for both to share sentiments and ideas.  Let out your hopes and fears with your partner to make your marriage more workable in the midst of your busy daily lives.

Above all, love is the most important essence in a happy, successful marriage. Rekindle your love everyday like the first time you fell in love. In conclusion, trust, effective communication, and forgiveness are the keys for a happy, healthy marriage.

Family Something to Talk About...

10:14 AM